
It's been a while but now I am back on line: So here is a summary of the last few days:
Thursday 7/6:
And so it begins, the next part of the journey: the homestay. I think everyone was anxious, no one more than me when I was told that my homestay family had been switched at the last moment. Now, I was told, I would be staying with a husband and wife with a child. I was told the child was two or three but it turns out that child is twenty-three, and I am not sure if he lives at home.
Anyway, we drove to a campus on the outskirts of town and were greeted by a sign hanging on a building which read "Welcome U.S.-China Friendship volunteers." There we were escorted into a room where the Chinese families were together awaiting us. Just as we were wondering who we got, I am sure they were wondering who they were stuck with. I was already traumatized because I had once been rejected. There were a couple of short speeches and then we were asked to find our families who were holding up a sign with our names on it. Since mine was a last minute replacement, I was not even sure they would be there and the fear seem to be confirmed when I continued to search fruitlessly while other volunteers joined their happy families. But at last a woman in her fifties came up and asked my name and I confirmed it and soon we were out the door and headed to her apartment.
The woman is an English teacher, the man a Chinese teacher who speaks not a word of English but seems to delight in pointing out objects to me and having them repeat their names in Chinese. Dinner was vegetables and meat stirred in a wok, potatoes and come sort of red cabbage served in the following manner. The boiled potatoes are placed in a big bowl with a serving spoon, while the pork/vegetable dish and the cabbage are place in separate bowls. We are each given a bowl of rice as well. We take out the potatoes withe the serving spoon but just reach into the pork/vegetable and the cabbage dish with our chopsticks. After dinner we walked around the campus. After the hectic pace of Chengdu this place was a refreshing scene. It is hardly rustic and idyllic but it is clean and orderly with paved streets and pathways. The university is a city as it were all by itself and its confines seem at least for now to be fairly pleasant
Friday, 7/7
It’s my first breakfast, and I don’t know what to expect. Mr. Z is in the kitchen boiling some milk and pours me out bowl and then instructs me on how to hold the bowl to drink it. On the stove some eggs are being boiled in a wok and I am just glad they are not fried. There is some white bread on the table. It could be worse.
Class starts at at 8:30 with what was officially called a debriefing session in which we were to air our opinions about the first night of homestay. I think a lot of people were freaked out, no more so than by the fact that for many people (myself included) by some of the non-Western bathroom accommodations. But soon it is on language class. I am assigned to a group with the only male teacher, who immediately takes the four of us into a small room and writes on the board the Chinese for various phrases like: class is starting, open your books. I can tell this will be a disciplined classroom, and not just from the military haircut this young man is sporting. I end up going out to lunch with the teacher and another student, a young woman who seems more than a bit freaked out by this place. The teacher does the ordering, and I end up with a bowl of "fire noodles." He tells me how to order it so it isn’t hot, but the phrasing escapes me right now. I will soon have to start learning menu Chinese. They gave us a sample menu in our Peace Corps kit, but I've been told (and had this confirmed by actual experience) that this menu is not much help at the type of places (cheap) that we'll be eating at. At the end, the teacher tells me to say to woman who served us, "Lao ban, mai dan" (boss, the bill). And it seems to amuse everyone at the place. After lunch it is back for another couple hours of language and then a discussion about the difference between Eastern and Western classrooms. We are given a handout comparing Confucian and Dewey values, but no one knows who John Dewey is. So we watch a video of PCVs in action in the classroom and of Chinese teachers. The difference is, not surprisingly, striking. The Chinese teachers are much more lecture and call on students, while the PCVs practice what we refer to as "feminist pedagogy," which means of course group work and trying to entertain the students.
Dinner is the same concept as yesterday: A big dish and two or three smaller ones along with a bowl of rice. This time it is tomatoes, pumpkin, very thin sliced potatoes and ginger. I’m sorry, but I still can’t given over this shared chopsticks thing. After dinner we take another walk around campus.On it, Mrs. Z goes over the way a Chinese grade school teacher meets class, including the words (which I can’t recall now) for "stand up" and "hello teacher," and they seem to get quite a kick from me pronouncing them. Mr. Z continues his practice of pointing to objects and saying "zhe shi shenme" and waiting to see if I know the answer.
Saturday 7/8:
I should appreciate this Saturday off because the next two or three Saturdays it’s four hours of language class. Mrs. Z has invited me to her Tai Chi class which meets in a nearby square at 6:30. When we get there the square has only a few people in it and she looks confused but we find out things start at 6:40. I am invited, against my protestations, to join the class. I studied Tai Chi a while ago and know it is a very intricate, regimented and choreographed series of movements. Nevertheless, I join in and try to follow along with the movements of the other participants and not make too big of a fool of myself. We do three series of exercises and then its time for Tai Chi with fans which even I won’t attempt. Afterwards, I go for a little run around the campus.
In the afternoon I find the library and internet access, which is good. I also find a local grocery store, which is not so good because I can’t help but fill up on a lot of junk food–oreo cookies, m&ms, a big box of Nescafes with cream and sugar, ice cream. I’ve probably undermined all the detoxing my body has been going through since coming here. I can see why the Chinese are healthy generally speaking. It is a very natural diet, no processed foods, no sugar. I make a note to try to stay away from the grocery store for the remainder of my homestay.